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Until we meet again

Mitzi died this morning. She looked so worn out this morning, not eating, not wanting to walk very far. So I took her to the vet’s and she died with me stroking her and telling her I loved her.  It hurts of course because there was no way to know for sure it was what Mitzi wanted, but I felt at peace that, as much as I could know, it was indeed what Mitzi wanted. She was tired and in discomfort. I will miss her so very much.









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  1. They know when it's time. And having you there and stroking her and assuring her of love I'm sure helped her passing be more gentle.

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